I received the message below from Mike, a 53 year old guy who has been both widowed and divorced, and who has some words of wisdom for men over 50. If you water your own grass, it won’t be greener on the other side of the fence. I don't see that changing and worry and almost hope it will not survive.Thought I would share, and in italics below are my comments. Jackie, I wanted you to know that I loved your piece from Sept 3. I crossed that personal Rubicon in 2012, and can say with certainty that I’ve learned more in the past 3 years than I did in the previous 50. I imagine a life without them as stress free and adventurous but also lonely, hedonistic and even self-destructive.
We’ve highlighted the top 12 dating sites for divorced people.He probably expects you to be discreet about your relationship for a while. With being discreet comes social media restrictions.Discretion doesn’t just come mean hidden from public. Simply don’t advertise your relationship on social media just yet, especially if the divorce proceedings started.Be secure enough about yourself to hear about the ex without overanalyzing things or taking it all too personally. While you lend your support for whatever your boyfriend goes through, you don’t have to know every detail of the divorce and even his past relationship.While it’s natural to be curious, don’t be too pushy.