Dating cute guys
She has been online dating on-and-off for over 4 years.She has gone out on at least 100 first dates, interacted with over 1000 guys, and reviewed at least 10000 profiles.I have more sympathy for those who were duped by the deceitful jerk than those who intentionally decided to date the obvious crazy chick or bad boy.
I have watched guys return to women they knew were unstable, were running a three-ring circus of their lives, erratic from drug use, over-reactive, and/or melodramatic. On the other hand, jerks (male and female) come in different flavors and MANY of them charm and manipulate.The craziest women I know always have guys circling around. Having said that, I totally acknowledge that some women could be in a room with 99 nice guys and 1 bad boy…and they would pick the jerk every time. Upon further reflection, I see one major difference between the crazy girl, the bad boy, and the jerk.The guys may not stick around long, but there are always options for these women. As I’ve mentioned in a previous story, I think one of the main reasons men date crazy chicks is something they don’t even realize: When a guy dates the crazy chick and the relationship invariably unravels, the guy can take zero accountability. Like the I-always-seem-to-date-a-crazy-chick clueless guy, the I-always-seem-to-end-up-with-a-jerk clueless woman exists, too. Perhaps she mistakes control and dominance for love. Usually, the crazy girl is incapable of hiding her crazy. Usually a guy dating a crazy girl knows it within a few dates (if not the very first date).‘I get attention from women in real life, but hardly anything online,’ he tells uk.‘I think sometimes women think that because you’re attractive you won’t be interested in them.